Many people live their entire lives trying to be like others.
The fallacy of Becoming is that we think we will be happy and everything will fall into line if only we can be like someone else.
When the need to “become” is motivated by self-denial or self-contempt, this is a form of scarcity mentality.
Being inspired by someone is very different from rejecting who you are.
This just builds more resistance and resistance = scarcity.
Practice Being the Observer today. What is your motivation for “becoming”?